Finding yourself in your 20’s

 I always find it funny when people tell me you’ll find yourself in university, or in your thirties you won’t have the same pressure of trying to impress other or feel like you have to have everything in place.

I believe your twenties is whatever you make it, and continue doing when you get older.

I remember when I was 14 fantasying what I would be doing when I’m 18. I thought I would be studying art or fashion and for some reason wearing really nice coats with a beret. Looking back at it now, I didn’t study any of these subjects and it’s different than I imagined.

All of sudden I’m at university imagining what my career would be. I was so unsure, I’m still learning and finding things I like. Finding yourself is a never-ending journey because a career can change, your hobbies won’t be the same, and you’ll have a different group of friends or you may even move to a different city or country.

So what I’m saying is enjoy yourselves, you’ll be working hard all your life but you’re missing out on experiencing life. Don’t be too hard on yourself, it is true what they say everyone is on their own journey which means you won’t be at the same pace. Sometimes I know I’m hard on myself and I have to remind myself that life isn’t a competition, things take it’s own course.